A conversation with M yesterday led me here...
Of course there are two sides to the flip side (of my previous post)...
1. That my shielding disrespects the Divinity of the other person just because i don't think enough of them.
2. That NOT shielding them from the whole enchilada disrespects their will to know more than they want to know!
i'm not doing a good job of figuring out item 2. i tend to err on the side of waiting to be asked a question directly, to respond directly. Seems fair... but what if they don't even know what to ask? hmmmm...
Where do those boundaries lie with each person? Do i get to determine that? How dense shoud my filters be?
Oh hamsters.
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